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Do we have multiple lives?

My question is “Do we have multiple lives?”
Hey, lets keep this very simple..
First of all who are you? Or before to that who am I?
Okay..lets find out who are we?
When I say YOU, Is it your body or your soul?
If YOU are your soul, then there is no death for you or
if YOU are your body, then after your death, your soul also dies.
Some geeks say that we are like this because we have done some sins in our previous birth.
If that is the case, then I should remember my previous birth right? Otherwise how do I know what the mistakes I have done?
Since we don’t know anything related to the previous lives (at least I don’t know anything about mine, by any chance do you remember??), then how can I believe the concept of multiple lives?
And what is the purpose of that? If that should exist, then we should remember all of those so that we can analyze ourselves and we can know where we are going…
Like I’m a cat in my previous birth and I have done some good things so only I got a promotion and I became a human being in this life etc.

But that’s not happening.. hence the concept of multiple lives is disproved. If you have any views different than this, please put those here. I’m ready for any questions/comments/suggestions.

Finally changed my views on Marraige

I was an anti-marraige group member till a few days back and yeah, I used to motivate people for not getting married. But then, I had to revisit all my views and finally I'm convinced on getting married. Ofcourse this was not an easy decision, it took me almost 2 and half years for this. Let me talk a few..in fact very few things about this.

Basically marraige is a convention, nothing more than that; its a way of life. Two people can live together without the marraige concept also. But then I got a question that 'What are you losing if you marry?" . Then I gave a serious thought over it; when I'm ready to live with a person then what am I going to lose if I bend to their conventions. Ofcourse still I can be firm on my concepts or so called perceptions, but I should consider the other half's concerns also.

Anyways, its not that you have to marry someone. In order to live with that 'someone', you have to marry. With marraige, your life becomes complete.